Comments on: It’s a hard road finding… http://inblognito.blogsome.com/2008/12/12/its-a-hard-road-finding/ Just another WordPress weblog Wed, 16 Dec 2009 20:11:56 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=1.5.1-alpha by: Kari http://inblognito.blogsome.com/2008/12/12/its-a-hard-road-finding/#comment-285 Sat, 13 Dec 2008 03:01:19 +0000 http://inblognito.blogsome.com/2008/12/12/its-a-hard-road-finding/#comment-285 I can relate to that a lot as you know. Also, I have been on both sides of the fence. I have seen a lot of people leave behind bad habits in their lifestyle when they take on a more responsible lifestyle of bringing a life into this world. It's a sticky situation to say the least, and who knows, maybe she's shied away from the lifestyle a bit since you left? Either way I say just focus on the celebration of the marriage and try to not let the other stuff dictate how good of a time you will have. As your friend I should think she would be respectful enough to not do those things or talk about them around you if she knows you don't approve. I can relate to that a lot as you know. Also, I have been on both sides of the fence. I have seen a lot of people leave behind bad habits in their lifestyle when they take on a more responsible lifestyle of bringing a life into this world.

It’s a sticky situation to say the least, and who knows, maybe she’s shied away from the lifestyle a bit since you left? Either way I say just focus on the celebration of the marriage and try to not let the other stuff dictate how good of a time you will have.

As your friend I should think she would be respectful enough to not do those things or talk about them around you if she knows you don’t approve.

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